Jay-Z and Beyoncé’s bouncing bundle of joy isn’t even a week old,
and the Internet has already bombarded her and her parents on
everything involving her. To be honest, Blue Ivy Carter has been under
attack since Beyoncé made the announcement that she was pregnant at the
2011 MTV VMA’s. Some of the questions I saw on social media and the
blogosphere were:
“Is it a publicity stunt?”
“Is that baby bump real?”
“Will the baby look like a Camel?”
Now that Baby Blue is here, everyone has something to say about the
way she came into the world. Some are upset that Jay and Bey decided to
occupy an entire floor of the hospital for privacy and security
reasons. They also did not allow any cell phones on the floor to make
sure there were no unauthorized pictures of the baby.
Are these things that I would do for my wife and child? Not really.
But I’m not Jay-Z. I do think it’s excessive, but if he felt like
that’s what he wanted or needed to do, who are we to judge?
Everyone also has their own opinions as to whether or not Blue Ivy
is a good name for their child, but the most important thing that
people forget is that it’s THEIR CHILD! No one is coming to your house
and criticizing for naming your child “Sharquavia”, “Kevionika”,
“Da’Quill”, or “Lotus FlowerBomb Jenkins”…all because you want to be
different.
It’s not like Blue Ivy Carter is going to have to worry about
getting a job and being disqualified for employment for having a
“ghetto” name. It’s not like she’ll be the victim of the lackluster
public education system. It’s not like she’ll be shunned in any way
because of her name. She’ll grow up a child of privilege, while most of
your kids won’t.
Now before you think I’m defending Beyoncé and Jay-Z because I’m a
fan, I’m here to tell you that I’m not. I have been praying that
Beyoncé would take a break so that I don’t have to see her every five
minutes, bombarding me with rushed, lackluster music that hasn’t moved
me since 2003. When it comes to Hov, I like him, but I was disappointed
with Watch The Throne.
I’m simply stating that while they are public figures, and they
signed up to be critiqued, picked apart, and downright, hated on, I
think that there’s too much going on in our communities that needs to
be addressed to spend so much time, energy, or effort on someone’s name
(or baby) who we don’t know and have never met.
But who am I to judge? My name is Tazz Daddy. SMH
David “Tazz Daddy” Anderson is a Nationally Recognized Media
Personality, Motivational Speaker, Author, and AllHipHop.com
contributor. His latest book, Common Sense Ain’t Common, is available at http://TazzDaddy.com or wherever books are sold. Follow him on Twitter (@TazzDaddy).Chanzo ni allhiphp.com
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